• Rikj000@discuss.tchncs.de
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    14
    ·
    6 months ago

    .4 Should be, deadline stress kicks in, “my god dude you’re doing the thing with un-natural amounts of concentration/speed”

  • Yondoza@sh.itjust.works
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    11
    ·
    6 months ago

    If anyone is actually interested in breaking this cycle, “Getting Things Done” is a great book that addresses this issue.

    In relation to this: identifying what needs to be done isn’t sufficient to start doing it. It is much easier to work on something when there are distinct tasks associated with it, so the next step after identify is create a list of all the tasks you need to complete along with all of the tools or resources you’ll need to complete that task. Then, when the time comes to actually do any of the tasks there are less mental barriers of ‘prepping’ and more just doing.

    This obviously won’t fix motivation problems, but it does help.

    • xpinchx@lemmy.world
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      5
      ·
      6 months ago

      Thanks I’ll check this out, I’m almost finished with atomic habits. Any other recommendations? I’m medicated but working on breaking some of my ADHD tendencies.

      • Yondoza@sh.itjust.works
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        4
        ·
        6 months ago

        I don’t have any other suggestions unfortunately. I have been using the general philosophy of this book with “ToDoist” which is a task/checklist app. Together they have made me feel more in control and my life less chaotic.

        It’s still hard to find motivation sometimes, even just followiny this framework. When I am following it, my stress levels seem to go way down because I’m not constantly worried I’ve forgotten about major things.

        Life’s hard man.

        • xpinchx@lemmy.world
          link
          fedilink
          English
          arrow-up
          1
          ·
          6 months ago

          Nice! I just started doing something similar at work and came across Todist but I’m trying ticktick first - it integrates with my outlook inbox and calendar so it’s easy to create email-related followups and such. Somewhat related to my personal life I put everything on my Google calendar. Important dates, plans, reminders, etc. It’s the only reason I have any sort of grasp on my life.

          Same with atomic habits I have some habit tracking calendars/notebooks but it’s soooo easy to fall off and skip weeks.

          ADHD is a real bitch sometimes.

  • jaschen@lemmynsfw.com
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    2
    ·
    6 months ago

    Sometimes when I have a ton of work to do and I can’t even get myself to eat my Ritalin. I end up play League for 4 hours and then scramble(panic) working the other 4 hours extremely effectively when others need 6.

    Then I can’t sleep at night because the adrenaline is still in my body.