• RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world
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    1 month ago

    So in your case the offered/imposed format of structure ended up working.

    Yeah, plenty of AuDHD have some form of pathological demand avoidance, and the demand they accept presented structure will likely be rejected.

    So the person you’re responding to isn’t wrong. Structure is necessary, but it needs to be one you can accept, either offered or self-imposed.