Absolutely, BUT, achieving many things that bring happiness in your life does cost money anyway.
Starting a happy family? You need a place for everyone to live, a food for everyone to eat, clothes to wear, all the expenses going into creating wonderful moments for your family, be it a small homely party or an adventure.
Having friends? You need to hang out somewhere, do something together, and that would likely drain your wallet.
Opening something new, going for a trip? Tons of money again.
Like, sustaining your life to begin with? You wouldn’t believe it - a lot of money.
So, we cannot pretend that money and happy living are two completely disconnected entities. Money is essential in providing the lifestyle one wants to have. And no amount of content and gratitude will help you if you’re broke as hell and doing slave job to survive.
So, the coffee example is not about buying a dopamine hit. It’s about sustaining the kind of life one wants to see. A cup of coffee, in this case, is not an embodiment of consumerism, but a personal ritual.
Absolutely, BUT, achieving many things that bring happiness in your life does cost money anyway.
Starting a happy family? You need a place for everyone to live, a food for everyone to eat, clothes to wear, all the expenses going into creating wonderful moments for your family, be it a small homely party or an adventure.
Having friends? You need to hang out somewhere, do something together, and that would likely drain your wallet.
Opening something new, going for a trip? Tons of money again.
Like, sustaining your life to begin with? You wouldn’t believe it - a lot of money.
So, we cannot pretend that money and happy living are two completely disconnected entities. Money is essential in providing the lifestyle one wants to have. And no amount of content and gratitude will help you if you’re broke as hell and doing slave job to survive.
So, the coffee example is not about buying a dopamine hit. It’s about sustaining the kind of life one wants to see. A cup of coffee, in this case, is not an embodiment of consumerism, but a personal ritual.