Oh, I agree, but in those instances there might also be the possibility of women being forced to mary (even as first/only wife).

And Islam is already very explicit with the consent of the woman being required, just like western laws do that (and yet it can still happen)

But you bringing up handguns, I think we should always consider benefit and risks, and the risks of everybody owning handguns do definitely exceed the risks of some people having multiple wifes (as in risks for society, as well as risks for personal safety)