I really like watch porn videos of women saying very humilating and degrading things about me because I love feeling like I’m a loser, Inadequate and worthless.

But I don’t want tell my future wife or girlfriend that I’m into this because it’s so embarrassing. How do I get rid of this kink?

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    1 day ago

    Why would you assume it to be appropriate to attempt humiliating someone, even as a joke, just because you happened to discover they were into consensual practice of the kink? Super fucking weird bro. Would you just tie a random person up without asking them if they mentioned they were into rope bondage?

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      1 day ago

      Jesus Christ, get over yourself.

      you want an answer to your question then ask yourself this, did I honestly assume my feeble attempt to chastise a complete degenerate on the internet would result in my expected outcome?

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        1 day ago

        By calling it “[your] expected outcome” I believe you’ve answered your own question there.

        Consent is important, dickweed. Cry about it.

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            19 hours ago

            OP asked for advice, not horny role play. You leaning into their kink is icky at best.

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              9 hours ago

              and you getting icked out by a response that wasn’t even directed at you is pathetic and screams “snowflake”, what’s your point?

              I gave op advice. I told them to find themselves someone who would accept them for who they are. why are you getting so butthurt over a stupid comment on the internet? are you some kind of righteous white knight that feels an injustice has occurred and now you feel a strong sense of responsibility to put me in my place?