I have a 10 yo daughter with PDA autism (and ADHD) who decided to refuse her medication in early January. We have noticed a big difference from when she took them so we really want her to get back on them, but nothing we have tried works. Anyone with some experience they want to share? We are grasping for straws at this point. Help

  • Madlaine@feddit.de
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    8 months ago

    To add to this aspect:

    Pandas are especially prone to reject conventional therapy, because therapy is a demand: “Healing begins now”.

    Same thing goes with medication: “We expect you to get better after taking this”

    For myself, the best thing is to just let me do my thing. Put the meds somewhere where I can see them. But don’t expect me to take them. If they’ll help and you’re away, I may decide I take them, but because I want to, not because it’s expected from me.

    But that also means: If I myself feel better without the meds, I won’t take them.

    (but I’m a high masking late diagnosed panda and in regards to PDA/ADHD unmedicated, therefore I have no expertise with medications of panda-children or how parents would handle that.)

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      8 months ago

      100% agreed on everything (also side effects can hit us different and we can struggle to explain how), even the note at the end describes me almost exactly as well…