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  • I had something similar happen when I was much younger.

    When I was in the relationship, the girl manipulated all of our friends into believing I was cheating on her, giving them sob stories, and telling them about evidence she found that did not exist.

    They had no reason to doubt her so they all invited her to move out from our place and in with them, I had no idea any of this was going on and when we were all together everything seemed normal.

    One guy in that group of friends stood up for me and said she was full of shit but no one listened to that dude…until her lies came crashing down because I found out she was cheating on me. She left the state within a week and that friend group sat me down and told me about everything she had said and done.

    My guess is your ex is similar. She’s probably been playing your friends for a long time and they have no reason to doubt her.









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    1 month ago

    He missed a step before and some after:

    Do everything humanly possible with the thing, learn exactly how it works, become subject matter expert, then put it somewhere.

    Have someone randomly ask about the thing, knowledge dump, excited to show the person the thing, forget where you put it.

    Be at home a few weeks later, find the thing, be sad you couldn’t find it earlier, put it in a new pile, for sure you’ll remember where it is this time!