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  • ArbitraryValue@sh.itjust.workstomemes@lemmy.worldMaybe next week
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    2 months ago

    Why is my brain like this? Why do I always do things the hard way?

    "Oh, there’s this thing you have to do that’ll take fifteen minutes. "

    “I’ll do it tomorrow.”

    “Oh, there’s this thing you’ve been putting off for a few days. The deadline for it is coming up.”

    “I’ll do it right before it’s due.”

    “Oh, there’s this thing that’s past due, but it might not be too late…”

    “I can’t handle this. I’m going to pretend it doesn’t exist.”

    “Oh, the thing that would have taken 15 minutes is now a major disaster that’ll take days to fix and cost a lot of money. Your life is falling apart as we speak.”

    “I’ll handle it now, since I have no choice.”



  • I didn’t like the 3D Fallouts but I had fond memories of the original two, so I tried to replay Fallout 2 a few years ago. The writing is great but the gameplay has not aged well. Combat is simply tedious, especially against many enemies at once. You have to wait for them to slowly take their turns one by one, then on your turn you often just stand still and shoot once. Outside of combat, there’s a lot of running back and forth which gets quite tedious too. I guess I had more patience twenty five years ago than I do now…




  • ArbitraryValue@sh.itjust.workstoADHD Women@lemmy.worldRelevant for all neurodivergence
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    2 months ago

    My belief is that willpower isn’t something a person “just” needs - it’s one of most precious and hard to acquire things a person can have. It also doesn’t fix mental health problems, but it helps cope with them. I say that as someone who has just barely enough willpower to keep my own life from falling apart, even with medication and the help of my family. I don’t know how to get more of it so I’m not going to be dismissive of other people who also don’t have as much as they might want.


  • That’s true to an extent, but maybe there’s more to it than that. The older people I know seem to have more, well, I’m not sure how to put it… Willpower? My psychologist is an elderly woman and she says that if she decides she ought to do something, she just does it. What she feels doesn’t matter. My older relatives act like that too. Their ability to endure emotional (and physical) pain and keep going is remarkable.