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  • Removing other stressors and toxic people from my life. Listening to emotional responses.

    My anxiety from a rough relationship was giving me generalized social anxiety.

    Sometimes you meet people and give then a chance before your figure it out. You can just cut them off once you see their toxicity. They’ll survive just fine so don’t worry about them. There’s plenty of other people who are ready for good and healthy friendships.











  • Beyond missing the subtext…

    I don’t actually read all that much. I’m excruciatingly slow and i don’t currently commute. Most of my reading was on public transit or camping. But the authors i like just happen to either be ok with sharing copies of their work or it’s available for free anyways. That said I’ve bought maybe twenty books in the last decade…

    Textbooks from exploitative publishers especially i refuse to pay for. E.g. Wiley, pearson, McGraw-Hill, etc… As well technical publications and journals.

    The great Gatsby was provided by school when i read it. All the books were in my k-12. Most the students couldn’t afford them.



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    1 month ago

    The idea is expressed for catharsis. It’s only going to push awful people further into caustic masculine behaviors. So it’s not actually directed at them, its target audience is other folk who have to deal with their awful behaviors.

    As long as you’re not unnecessarily approaching strangers in public and you build trust in your personal relationships then you can safely ignore it.

    Edit: actually you kind of need to once you understand the problem being described or your mental health will take a severe hit. Talking from experience here…