I might be wrong in this, but I’m pretty sure it’s exceedingly rare for Iran to directly fire missiles at Israel, it’s usually Iran-supplied proxies doing it (such as Hezbollah). It’d be like making the argument that anyone at war with a US backed nation/faction has a carte blanche to attack America

A think to note is that a lot of people can begin displaying symptoms of ADHD as an adult, once the structure of life as a child goes away. I wasn’t diagnosed until I was 23, and we never would have even considered I had it until I was 21. If you’re relating to a lot of ADHD stuff, it might be worth getting tested. Worst case scenario, you don’t have it but get pointed towards other supports for you struggles.