being fit becomes a way to signal discipline, long-term planning, a healthy lifestyle, competence, and so on.

Yeah but I think it’ll just be a more explicit marker of wealth instead, sort of how so much of fashion boils down to “how much are you willing to spend?”

This really just seems like “I want to complain about .ml” with extra steps.

I don’t care for them, so I don’t go there.

Open source projects will be used for things of which you approve and of which you do not, that is life.

I was 34. But maybe a late emotional developer?

It’s funny, I was pretty much in your shoes (who cries at imaginary people?) For most things. Then covid hit, something flipped and damn, I’m pretty sure I’ve had tears in more movies in the last 3 years than the 30 before that.

Maybe but I kinda doubt it. Trump’s usually move is to trigger the Left by saying something that divides us from the majority of folks (as some trans Californian track athlete just won something, perfect time too) whereas having a fight with someone hia base respects that escalates to something his base cares about (rooting out Dem pedophile cabal, regardless of whether one exists) and implicating him… That seems a stunningly bad move and for all his faults, trump is good at the politics of a brawl.

Well, there goes Tesla’s full self driving federal approvals etc.

Well yeah, it’s not like you’d have a choice. She does not allow insubordination.

My folks have done this maybe 10 times without issue. There are whole websites etc, happy to pass on the one my parents used if you’d like. (I’d have ti ask etc or I’d just share it.)

It was going to be announced at his retirement party on Monday… You know the dev likes surprises.

Honestly, a lot of days make me feel satisfied. I work on the comp side of a fundraising department for a large public university. I’m good at what I do, enjoy it and have earned enough of a reputation that people generally let me tackle whatever comes my way however I want.

So, if I have a good productive day, I feel like maybe more students got scholarships because of my work that day. And I work from home so if I did well at work, found time to do my “old man refuses to stop playing sports with kids in their 20s” exercises AND had a couple good homecooked meals, well yeah, I feel pretty accomplished and satisfied.

But yeah, doing something I like for a cause which I ferverently support, I have more good days than bad. Working from home is a heck of a cherry on top though.

I’ve wondered and never thought to ask. Thanks, the resulting conversation has been awesome.

Utilitarianism makes sense from first principles, Kant is just his opinions.

It’s act vs rule ethics, what is ethical in a particular situation may not be broadly applicable to society.

Edit: And from the religious parents perspective, letting your beloved child suffer an eternity of torment is probably not super moral. I may disagree but that’s their perspective and there’s no arbiter make the call.

I think that’s the ethical answer too.

We can’t know who is right, so I don’t see any ethical way to intervene.

I hate when I see parents giving their kids a screen instead of interacting with them or worse, ignoring their kid im favour of their phone. But again, I don’t feel it is ethical to interfere.

Their kid, their call up until the point the child’s safety is in danger.

I have no more right to tell them how to raise their kids than they have about my entirely hypothetical and undesired kids. I may not agree with their choices and they may not agree with mine, I may think they are raising their kids to be less moral, they may think the same with the added bonus that I’m condemning mine to an eternity of torment.

That’s life in a pluralistic society.

Ha, I have no idea why it would blow up but the company is from my city, Vancouver. It is legitimately one of the most popular brands here in that I’d guess 3/4 women own at least one set of lululemon pants?

Awww, polite lady!

Honestly, mine isn’t terrible, she doesn’t bite or scratch during nail time, more just squirms and will try to bolt to the fridge for her post trim treat, ideally (in her lil mind) before any trimming.

Even if they’re just a little on the long side, they could still catch on things and break, which can be painful.

Cats didn’t evolve with upholstery. There’s not much equivalent in the wild.

So a cat’s instinct is probably to have longer claws than are safe in the modern context.

On the other end of the spectrum, my cat was fine using her scratchpads and posts for more than a decade but she’s now quite elderly and doesn’t play like that as much as she used to. Shamefully, I didn’t notice her nails had grown too long until she started limping because one had grown long enough to cut into her footpad.

We all want to let our cats be cats and let them do the things they love, like play, scratch, hunt, and climb. But there is a “too long” when it comes to cat claw length.

A cat’s claws are too long when they develop into a curved shape. In extreme cases of overgrowth, the claws can curve into your cat’s toe pads, which can be painful and cause open wounds.

Trimming them before they get too curvy will prevent that from happening. It will also prevent ingrown claws, which can be very painful and be further complicated and dangerous if an infection develops.

While cats’ claws are supposed to be sharp, there is such a thing as too sharp! If you notice that your feline friend is drawing blood or your furniture is torn up, give their claws a check and see if they need a trim.

But even if you don’t notice a curve or extra sharpness, keep a watchful eye on your cat’s claws. Even if they’re just a little on the long side, they could still catch on things and break, which can be painful.

Nicely done!

That is 35 more claws than we got done before she decided “enough with this” and leapt from medical couch and scurried to the fridge, awaiting her treats.