Locking as it’s not a question. Sorry you’re going through that OP but there are other communities to get support.

This technically violates rule #5 but I feel like it’s a valuable information and discussion to have available.

Locking: rule 5, already answered, and no more to be said

lemmy.ml has a pretty strict filter on any word that could be considered a slur regardless of context.

What did the blood test check for? I wonder if a general blood test would catch that.