The most powerful banishing spell is “let me just put this somewhere I know I’ll remember it”

The most powerful summoning spell is purchasing its replacement

Adding to the gem pile: this eight second bowling animation is how I learned about the Demon Core

I don’t think it’s tangentially related? You have effectively contrasted the Right Thing To Do comment with your experience of the Wrong Thing To Do as well as its terrible, lifelong impact.

I too had that flavor of (let’s say unkind) upbringing and now I devote every waking moment to tearing that garbage out of me and installing something more like what u/moakley described