Can’t catch a break

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Cake day: October 12th, 2023

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  • I am so jealous. My old work had stalls with gaps. The whole room was a bit tight, so you couldn’t just back up far enough to see the feet of the person in the stall. The locks were installed in such a way that if you pulled the door a little, it would open. (So a discreet soft pull on the door was not a good way of determining occupancy.)

    The only way to know was to look in the gap.

    I was about to go in a stall when I made eye contact with the current occupant of said stall. She just yelled out “YOU CREEPIN?”

    I am of course not socially awkward at all and was completely normal when I replied back “no… Sorry.”

    Actual privacy in a multi-stall bathroom would be so nice.





  • I did. I do have sleep apnea, but it is mild. Mild enough that they’re hoping that fixing my bite will make the apnea go away. (My bite causes other problems so that would be a big win for me.) They will prescribe a CPAP if it’s not enough.

    I’m hoping I’ll respond to these treatments enough that we won’t need to dig any more, but I want to know just in case. It seems like I keep finding more information about how my brain working differently can make things more difficult for me, so I am always curious to read what others say about it.






  • The less I have to worry about the essentials, the happier I am. The essentials being…

    • Personal safety

    • Access to clean water and food

    • Access to healthcare

    • Access to housing that is adequate/does not make me sick

    I still have to worry about all of the above a moderate amount, so it makes it a lot harder to deal with anything that makes me happy. If I hate my job, all of the above get a lot harder to secure, so I would need to tread carefully. My previous housing situation made me extremely sick, so I had to pay a lot more to find something that didn’t hurt me. (And therefore made it so I have to put off essential medical procedures.)

    It’s not all bad, but I would imagine removing those barriers would lead me to the freedom to make decisions that make me happier.