It’s your proposed solution that’s the problem. The answer isn’t to make Discord public, it’s to convince people to move off of it, and quite honestly, if you want people to leave Discord so badly, you’d be better off setting up separate public forums for the open source projects you are interested in on your own and convincing/bribing respected members of the Discord to post there, or copy/paste technical info there.

I feel the same way about Lemmy so I sympathize with you, honestly.

For open-source projects and stuff that needs to be public, I can feel you.

What these chucklefucks are asking for is to make ALL Discord content indexable and searchable, even extremely private intimate things, and that’s absolutely unacceptable.

No one wants their private/semi-private chats to be indexable or searchable. The whole POINT is to not have what you say broadcast to all and sundry.

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Zero meaningful and substantive argument

Or we can continue speaking out instead of allowing oversensitive idiots like you to get defensive at the mere mention that Lemmy is less than perfect.

This is your platform, not mine, after all.

Call me when you all want to fix the very clearly worse problems Lemmy has.

That’s literally how it is now

That’s just the human condition though.

It’s not a better world if it’s achieved through dishonesty and manipulation.

You’re absolutely right. We are driven by evolutionary forces like all life on Earth and that’s just part of being a living being.

Welcome to the wonderful world of science

🤔 So we need to focus on solutions.

What do you think would solve the problem of domestic abuse as a whole?

Well, obviously. Men’s issues will continue to be ignored as long as they are used as an emotional cudgel to deny women’s validation for theirs, and that’s a bitter pull the MRA douchebags need to swallow and fast. That is, if they actually care about men.

I thought statistically gay male marriages had low rates of domestic violence.

It applies to all abuse victims, not just males

Should I even bother justifying that with a response knowing you won’t ever listen or care unless it happens to a man anyway?

The statistics say men are responsible for most of the domestic violence, but good job proving you have a shitty sexist agenda by parroting what I was telling everyone else to benefit you, while rejecting the truth.

The only ones who are going to suffer is… about a quarter of U.S. households, give or take

Actually yes, that’s literally exactly where you say you don’t actually give a fuck about female victims of abuse. Because you came into this thread with a chip on your shoulder about women, and the second you saw someone talk about female victims of abuse, you pounced.

Because your dumb ass thinks talking about abuse happening to one group invalidates that of the other. Because to you, attention, sympathy and concern are a limited zero-sum source to squabble over.

And you bat not a fucking eye when MRA trash goes into women’s abuse threads and cries that men get abused too, and get rebuked the way you try and fail to rebuke me.

Because you are biased in favor of men at the expense of women.

You’re the problem. Literally you

And the slave racket keeps churning out more broken people while you squabble with me to try to be right about something.

Is you arguing with me going to do anything to save any abuse victims? Any of the male ones who are clearly the only ones you give a fuck about? Hmm?