I’m gay. I’m agender, and I like enbies better than men and women.
The other day in an argument I got frustrated with someone and told them to call me a homophobic slur. One part sarcasm, one part hoping they’d actually do it and get in trouble. Instead, I got punished for using the word. I wasn’t expecting that, because I’m gay. If I call myself a f-----, I didn’t think that was anyone else’s problem.
Was I right? Is it okay for me to use that word, talking about myself?
I think all oppressed people (which ultimately are all people except the ruling class) should bind together and break the system.
But yes, i think you have the moral right to call yourself whatever you wish. Do i think it is a great idea? Not sure. But I think you’re entitled to it.