• hauiA
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    3 months ago

    Listening do folks being confidently incorrect, ignorant or bigotted. It makes me wanna puke.

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      3 months ago

      I used to be like this. But I learnt to accept it because I knew there’s nothing I can do change it. I even find it entertaining now!

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        3 months ago

        Yeah, no. I learned to not accept it. Now I get physical reactions from it. Helps me to understand that this person is not good for me.

        Thats important because I generally am too forgiving irl and have suffered through tremendous loss due to people lying.

        Now I have pretty exclusively honest people in my life and its infinitely better than before.