I know I keep posting over and over but I’m in so much pain and I have no one or nowhere to go to when I am sad. I’m trying to channel everything internally without being such a burden and annoyance to people. I keep asking myself “why didn’t he fight for me and his relationship?” “Why am I so easy to be given up on?” “Was I even special to him?” … I cannot stop crying. I feel hopeless right now. When we stopped talking for a couple days and I reached out for closure, he said not speaking for those three days makes him realize he should’ve been more appreciative of me and how hard I tried and all those things. But if he was saying those things then why not turn it around? 😔I sound like a hopeless romantic but I can’t wrap my head around anything anymore… the closure somehow made it worse I guess. I told him I forgive him for anything he thinks he did wrong. He appreciated that. I miss him so much. I miss our memories, I miss his face. Something deep down inside of me feels like I’m going to see his face again but I know that’s false reality. We never even got to talk to each other about these things in person. I just want to cry in his arms.
oh grow up, i meant it as in if the relationship is going through a hard time, its always best to work together and not opt-out whenever u feel slightly overwhelmed. its being emotionally mature
No you meant it as in you get to cause drama and expect the man to chase you.
Toxic behaviour that shows he’s better off finding someone else.
Being emotionally mature is understanding the other party in a relationship has no obligation to deal with your shit.
If they’re the cause or intertwined with “my shit” then they should work through it with me. A relationship is about working together when a problem comes up. I don’t expect a man to chase me for my own issues, gross. I find that a red flag as well and I wouldn’t want to be with someone if that is how my mindset it