• phar@lemmy.ml
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    2 days ago

    Dude has anxiety and you’re talking to him like he’s purposefully being a jerk. Not cool.

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      No I’m not, I’m talking to them like they’re so anxious because they’re trying to get laid rather than trying to get to know someone.

      As a former young man I have also been exactly where the commenter has been and when I stopped looking at women as something to conquer rather than a human being, things started happening for me.

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        So you’re making an assumption about him AND ignoring the anxiety issue. That’s totally cool, then. Everyone is just like you, ya know. Everyone.