Alot
This fight was lost decades ago, but I understand.
Did the alot win?
It won alot, but in the end it lost alotmore
Language evolves.
True! How ain’t people not understand this?
Seriously, it disgusts me, but apparently we have to respect it.
Big one for me is how no one says “to be” anymore.
Like “fence needs fixed” rather than “fence needs to be fixed”
What? People say that? I’ve literally never heard anyone speak that way unless they were either non-fluent speakers or doing a caveman impression.
Yes. Very common in the south, and in less educated communities
I’ve heard “fence needs fixin,” but not this - “needs fixed” mixes tenses too 🤔
It is horrific, we live in hell
…I’m so glad I don’t live in the south
Same but it isn’t unique to
I dislike some conservative forms but sometimes use other old forms because I like this. This is a free country.
I don’t have strong feelings about English and you won’t be able to relate to the examples in my native language so I leave it here
Do women actually like strong biceps?
I feel the more you go to the gym you realise that you just do it to impress other men…
I think the truth is women do like muscly men, but men tend to overestimate how muscly. Like swimmer physique is attractive, hollywood batman physique is male power fantasy; or something
I can’t speak for every woman, but I can speak for my own experiences and report based on the things women I know have said. For me and those I’ve spoken to, we may like muscles, but the things you need to do to get those muscles often aren’t as attractive and cancel it out. Like, if you’re getting muscles by going to the gym every day, that’s only gonna attract women who are enthusiastic about the gym. If you get them from farm work, you’ll attract women enthusiastic about farm life.
That’s why a lot of us like dad bods so much. It’s not that it’s inherently more attractive, it’s that it’s a body type achievable by living the kind of life style people who’re into that enjoy.
In other words, yes, muscles can be attractive, but not nearly as attractive as shared hobbies and interests, and it just happens quite often muscles can be a quick indicator that you probably don’t share many.Dad Bod Workout = lifting up small children several times a day
Dad Bod Workout = flexing a beer can several dozen times an hour
That’s called the cool down.
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You’re close. The real truth is that most average people do not like to date too high above their perceived range of attractiveness. This bears out in many studies but people are attracted to 8’s and 9’s but won’t date them and instead mostly date people that are more normal 5,6,7’s.
Then we look at the opposite side of the coin, 9’s and 10’s don’t even want to date each other. And for good reason. Extremely attractive people often cross a line into narcissism or being too busy to hold a relationship.
So two factors: 1. Most people aren’t extremely fit and so don’t want to date people whose lifestyle does not match their own, we’re all also slightly insecure. 2. Extremely attractive partners tend not to be good partners. The more people that are attracted to you, the less that date you. Also that’s out of fear of competition and effort so it’s not worth it.
Yeah, I think in general it starts with trying to impress women, then you do it to impress other guys.
I guess it’s similar for women, they might get into doing their make up and looking nice for attention from guys they like, but in the end they’re mainly trying to impress other women or just doing it because they enjoy it.
People usually like the physique, not the commitment it needs to get there and maintain it. Plus, the steroids.
Lots of women like really jacked dudes (and many gay men of course).
I don’t like super lean jacked dudes personally. Give me a big thick rugby player or a 125Kg sumo wrestler any day over a bodybuilder.
Yeah and lots don’t.
Lots like short guys, and lots like tall guys.
Lots like ginger guys and lots don’t.
Almost like there isn’t a universal metric for what people like.
Yes. That’s why you may notice I used the first person singular pronoun in my post.
some do, some don’t
Yes.
So true. No gym I’ve ever been to has been willing to put in a cat ear machine.
You need to find a new gym. The growing process is slow and difficult, but with enough chicken breast and broccoli I too will soon have cat ears others will envy
I’ll start my own gym. With catgirls and a second goddamn bench press rack.
if enough singles start mentioning a preference for cat ears on dating websites, the market will adjust.
personally i prefer spock ears.
Isn’t that kinda elf ears? Or is it a crime against Vulcans to compare their ears as such?
Quark ears > Spock ears.
They should be more realistic than amine ones like actually on the sides of the head
As a woman who would dearly love a pair of fox ears, if it was possible we would have them.
Also, cat boys are criminally underrated compared to cat girls.
Also, cat boys are criminally underrated
Adrien from Miraculous Ladybug
oh somebody likes their catboys DUMB
One day it’ll happen, it’s right up there with a cure to aging on the scale of importance.
I’m still waiting for horns personally, like thicc horns that are part of my skull
Oh, highmates in Rimworld Biology.
What workout routine do I need to follow to become dog?
ok but what if I like my girls with biceps and my dudes with cat ears?
I hope Allie is doing better
This is the only reason I remember to put the space in. Every time I write “alot” I see the alot beast roaming the prairies.
Thank you for reminding me that this exists 😃
You can get cat ears in the gym?! Maybe I’ll actually start going again
Anyone who thinks women want men with big biceps has never watched an episode of Sailor Moon or picked through a copy of Peach Girl.
Women want Tuxedo Mask.
Someone who doesn’t do anything, but at least doesn’t get in the way?
where can i go to grow cat ears
The Gym, it says so right there
Cat ears are by no means a deal breaker. The money is in the tail
It really depends on how the tail is attached
Peg-mounted is best
Very true otherwise it can’t wag. That’s tail attachment 101 right there.
Maureen Ponderosa did.
Every time I meet a woman with cat ears online, it’s actually a man.
So, things may be more equal than they seem at first glance.
Men like
women with cat earsftfy
